Volunteer: Seasons Hospice and Palliative Care

I’m in the beginning process of being trained as a volunteer for Seasons Hospice and Palliative Care. There are 18 modules one needs to go through to become a volunteer.

Both my parents were on hospice in their last physical  days on Earth. My father’s passing December of 2010 and my mother’s passing January of 2018.
For more information about Seasons Hospice and Palliative Care visit here:

Couples Divine Touch Massage Three day Retreat

Within Barbara’s Divine Touch massage retreat, Barbara teaches the couple on how to give and receive a healing massage. This type of massage benefits the mind body and soul because it taps into a much deeper state of being. Using techniques from Esalen, Lomi Lomi, Swedish, deep tissue, quantum touch, polarity, trigger point release, Thai bodywork and many more, one can gain a better understanding of their mate, their own body and their partner’s body. Barbara teaches how to tap into the senses; the physical and spiritual.
Included in this retreat are different forms of meditation which helps when teaching the massage portion. Guided meditation, drumming, different types of music are used. Silence will become part of this retreat as this helps quiet the mind allowing one to ponder the touch they have received.
Barbara’s Divine Touch massage is for couples only that are looking to increase their sexual and sensual connection with their partner. They are excited and eager to learn new ways to please their partner. Room and board is covered. Barbara’s space is quiet and reserved in a peaceful environment. Reach out to Barbara now to schedule your retreat with her!


Couples Retreats to enhance their spiritual and sensual side!

Miss Rose’s space is settled in a peaceful serene setting by a lake. The tranquility of the area will have you relaxing before entering Barbara Anne Rose’s space. Within these retreats Barbara offers the couple no need to worry about anything as room and board is included.

Talk and touch therapy will be a daily practice in an individualized couple’s retreat. Talk therapy revolves around discussing anything that is distressing the couple. Sexuality, sensuality, sexual issues, communication, and more are common topics discussed. Touch therapy includes a combination of Barbara’s massage services.

Business has Moved






Spiritual and Emotional Healing has moved to a more desirable location for their clients. It is more suitable to hold their intensive weekend retreats in which Barbara Anne Rose thoroughly enjoys holding. She specializes in couples by helping them understand each other so they in turn will grow closer together emotionally and spiritually.

Weekend Retreats, Coaching and Counseling, as well as her couples Divine Touch (Love) massages, offer all the ways to teach them on how to tap into all of their senes: hearing, seeing, touching, smell, and yes even taste.

It is within Barbara’s Divine Touch that couples receive the sense of touch, seeing and smell. In her Divine Touch Barbara teaches couples on how to touch their mate. This means more than just physical touch but also touching each others heart! During a Divine touch session, Barbara guides the couple in a guided meditation (seeing). Tapping into the sense of smell happens because as they connect during the guided meditation, it is common for the man’s sense of smell to become higher, smelling his partner’s essence. And vice versa for the woman.

It is within Barbara’s Coaching and Counseling that couples receive the sense of hearing and seeing. During a counseling and coaching session, Barbara comes up with assignments for each session, requiring each person to follow up with assignment during the week and then express about how the assignment at following session. Often times Barbara wants an assignment to be done within the session itself in order to actually see the relation between them. By doing this, it helps Barbara discern even more so a true dynamic between the two. This can happen quickly, by the fourth session.

It is within Barbara’s weekend retreats couples tap into all of the senses. They are a beautiful mix of everything. Relational Communication specific on active listening and expressive talking. Divine Touch Retreat is obvious on touching. Intimacy and Sexual Issues stress active listening with the understanding of these kind of issues coming from a Spiritual cause. Learning about the Chakras, the energy stored within the body that effect our sexual centers.

On three quarters of an acre, the setting at Spiritual and Emotional Healing’s new spa is one of a lot of nature. The serenity is amazing! In the fall and winter time, view of Blairs Pond is usually visible and walking distance behind spa. During any one of the retreats Spiritual and Emotional Healing may even have time to do walking meditation at pond!! We cant wait to show you pictures of area once we are settled into our new place!!

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Male Society at Large

There are times in this work, actually to many times, I am finding men simply do not know how to interact with the female population, let alone a female professional.

Dear God, I pray for men to WAKE UP!!!! I never thought I would have to actually teach a male how to treat another female (me included of course because that is where I draw my major experiences) how to speak with respect and professionalism towards me and other professional women. I am open to admit: I GET TIRED OF IT. Seriously. There shouldn’t even be the need to have this BLOG, this discussion….at all. But it is sad, because it is true. This, in fact, is something extremely important that needs to be said.

The majority of men HAVE NO BALLS! The only balls they seem to care about are the one’s between their legs and the tiny third eye pineal gland in between their eyes. Everyone has two eyes to see and two ears to hear. But you gotta actually use them! You have to think of the other person you are talking to when you open your mouth.

MEN: when you talk to a professional it’s your duty to speak to them professionally. She is not your girlfriend, your wife, your mistress, your whatever. Speaking to a professional woman is NOT the place to be using words like:




Hey Sexy

Your hot

Can you send me pictures

Believe me, I’m not the only professional woman or massage therapist that experiences such immature behavior from the opposite sex. And you men wonder why your girlfriend/wife/partner turns against the entire male population and seeks a  female companion. So many times, over time, (because time does tell the truth and character of a person), men who think they know how to respect women, don’t know. So to say the least, coming across a real gentleman who does have real respect for women, is rare! I’m going to be conservative and give a percentage based on the USA, because this is the land in which I live, 10 -15 % of men have a real respect for women. That’s 85 – 90% that don’t. I have heard from my married women clients explain experiences that happen in their marriage which give way to their husband not being respectful towards them. Even when a couple is married, it doesn’t give the man ownership of their wife to do whatever he wants with no regard as to what or how his wife’s wants, needs, desires are. No still means NO; married, boyfriend/girlfriend, or not. Respect is respect at all times. Not just when the male feels like it. And most definitely it’s not when the male is pushing his dick up her butt or grabbing her by the waist from behind and grinding your pelvis into her. THATS NOT RESPECT!

Marriage is about partnership. Not ownership. She is not your slave. She is not your hired cook or cleaner. When you sign that piece of paper that says your married it’s not a paper signing “Now you’re mine and I get to do whatever I want to you.” Nor is it a subtle kind of ownership where you, the male, may think, the male’s word goes and the woman’s doesn’t. Partnership actually requires two people communicating over all things that can impact the marriage, the relationship. However one shouldn’t have to ‘get permission’ to do something or go somewhere. But I think it’s good manners to let your mate know at the very least, “Honey, I’m going to the food store. I’ll be back in about 2 hrs. Is there anything you need?”

I’m here as a Life Relationship Coach to teach men exactly what to do and not do when it comes to learning how to love, honor, and respect a woman. Please don’t assume you know-how guys. I heard a long time ago, from a man by the way, that the man needs to be taught by a woman how to treat a woman in this way. Too many times the females in that male child’s life, wasn’t there or didn’t teach him proper ways to treat a female.

Sooooo, don’t forget I, Barbara Anne Rose, IS actually here to help you!!


Ego and Lack of Growth in the Male Species

Ego and the lack of growth in the male species.

Why is it that men feel the need to hold on so tight to their egos? I have a few thoughts on this.

  1. Men’s fears of expressing self (this is huge)
  2. The innate of the need to protect self (ego)
  3. Fear of looking vulnerable/weak
  4. The worlds idea(s) of what a man looks like and their need to follow a world’s ideals

When men have these fears, known or unknown, they will inevitably hurt others, but the ONE person they hurt the most is their own self merely due to they simply refuse to allow to set aside their ego. This makes it extremely difficult to help them. Especially in an emotionally and Spiritual way. It doesn’t matter where one goes, who one sees, if one doesn’t receive healing from the emotional and spiritual aspect, one wont have ever lasting true change. The ego will still be there in one form or another. To live a fulfilling life, and I mean really fulfilling life filled with love, honor, respect, and truth at the center of our entire being, we need to have focus at the Spiritual and Emotional levels. THATS EVERLASTING! And THE ONLY WAY to everlasting change, in this life and beyond.

I’m on the man’s side when it comes to helping them beat whatever it is they need to conquer. I have the ability, care, and compassion and knowledge to help assist others, (men included) change!! I am much more than a massage therapist. My expertise is in the Spiritual. It is in feeling, sensing ones’s energy. Even the energy of the individual they would be talking about while in session. Of course this can depend on truthful they are being about what they discuss with me concerning other party. If they are allowing their own ego to get in the way (not speaking full truth of how THEY FEEL not just on what other person said or did), then we can get somewhere with me helping them. At the same time, if I’m going to assign homework to do to help them get from point A to point B, then it is important one follows through with advice. If one does not follow through with said advice, they have themselves to blame and no one else.

Men, if you want help in your relationships you must, absolutely must, open your heart and speak from it honestly. There is no other way to do it other then by doing that. If one partner has fear talking to their own partner then there something wrong here. Real relationships are open relationships where there is discussion about anything and everything so that the relationship can grow, thrive, and prosper. This does not have to be a never ending battle for you men. Times it feels for me

In Love and Light with Respect

Barbara Anne Rose


Trusting others is not something one should expect. Trust is earned, not matter what kind of relationship you have. It can be a relationship a parent has with their child, child with parent, a business associate, friend, lover, confidant. The ultimate one any one of us needs to put our trust in, is the higher power we believe in. THAT’S where it truly belongs. Anyone or anything outside of that must work to gain the trust of another. Period! It would be inappropriate to say to another or expect from another, for them to trust us (or vice versa) based on one meeting, one session, one phone call. If you do, then go inside to what your gut is telling you. If and when you have any questions or concerns about it, sit back taking some time to think about the situation as well as the person giving you the information.

When we deal with other businesses, allowing a reasonable amount of time, such as anywhere between 24 – 72 hrs is sufficient. Keep in mind 24 -72 hrs is their business hours, not days. When I work with individuals or couples, I like to be upfront with what to expect, or not expect, as it comes to how I run my business. In my eyes, proper protocol concerning getting back with someone, be it business to business, client with therapist, or student with coach, is the amount of up to three days. I also go further by expressing if they do not hear back form me within that time, to please call again. Or email again. I am open to receiving their input. I want to hear from my people no matter what question, concern, issue, they have. It is better, (and healthier by the way) to voice yourself by making your thoughts known. We all know no one can read all of our thoughts, so better to voice them then leave your voice unattended. Sometimes when we don’t voice, we will build resentment towards the other person. We may feel guilt or shame about our own selves thinking we didn’t have the right to say what we wanted to say.

When we love us, it is a good thing to voice our self.

In the Relational Communication Workshop I offer, these are things we go over. Bring your thoughts, concerns, issues, to me and I will help you widen your thought process around what is holding you back. We can discuss what you think you may be holding you back. I can help you discover what else may possibly be holding you back from moving forward to discuss subject matters close to your heart. I also help others change the way they think about words, and how the words they may be using is part cause of why they are where they are.

Visit my YouTube Channel YouTube. When you click link it will direct you to one of my most recent interviews with CUTV News.

I wish you blessings beyond belief!

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Empowered Woman of The Month with CUTVNews

I was selected by CUTVNews as their Empowered Woman for the Month of March. What an honor. As their Empowered Woman of The Month there will be TWO Press Releases and four interviews. First of four interviews was March 3rd, at 2pm EST.

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CUTVNews Blog Talk Radio


Barbara Anne Rose



CUTV News Radio Show

Radio Interview with Doug Lewellen this past Monday on February 6, 2017 at 1 PM was a blast. Click here to hear all the juicy details on why and how I created The Space Between The Thorns, my coaching, mentoring and workshop retreats.

Giving live examples of potential relationship issues, what to look for, how to handle them, are we discussing our thoughts about what we want, desire, like in our relationships. Our sexual likes, embracing our sexuality and sensuality. How we have the link inside us all to express our truth.

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose