Trusting

Trusting others is not something one should expect. Trust is earned, not matter what kind of relationship you have. It can be a relationship a parent has with their child, child with parent, a business associate, friend, lover, confidant. The ultimate one any one of us needs to put our trust in, is the higher power we believe in. THAT’S where it truly belongs. Anyone or anything outside of that must work to gain the trust of another. Period! It would be inappropriate to say to another or expect from another, for them to trust us (or vice versa) based on one meeting, one session, one phone call. If you do, then go inside to what your gut is telling you. If and when you have any questions or concerns about it, sit back taking some time to think about the situation as well as the person giving you the information.

When we deal with other businesses, allowing a reasonable amount of time, such as anywhere between 24 – 72 hrs is sufficient. Keep in mind 24 -72 hrs is their business hours, not days. When I work with individuals or couples, I like to be upfront with what to expect, or not expect, as it comes to how I run my business. In my eyes, proper protocol concerning getting back with someone, be it business to business, client with therapist, or student with coach, is the amount of up to three days. I also go further by expressing if they do not hear back form me within that time, to please call again. Or email again. I am open to receiving their input. I want to hear from my people no matter what question, concern, issue, they have. It is better, (and healthier by the way) to voice yourself by making your thoughts known. We all know no one can read all of our thoughts, so better to voice them then leave your voice unattended. Sometimes when we don’t voice, we will build resentment towards the other person. We may feel guilt or shame about our own selves thinking we didn’t have the right to say what we wanted to say.

When we love us, it is a good thing to voice our self.

In the Relational Communication Workshop I offer, these are things we go over. Bring your thoughts, concerns, issues, to me and I will help you widen your thought process around what is holding you back. We can discuss what you think you may be holding you back. I can help you discover what else may possibly be holding you back from moving forward to discuss subject matters close to your heart. I also help others change the way they think about words, and how the words they may be using is part cause of why they are where they are.

Visit my YouTube Channel YouTube. When you click link it will direct you to one of my most recent interviews with CUTV News.

I wish you blessings beyond belief!

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

CUTVNEWS Press Release Feb 2, 2017

I have been working with CUTVNEWS for the past month in preparation for tomorrows Press Release, releasing February 2, 2017.

There will be two blog talk radio show Interviews. First one will be Monday February 6th at 1pm EST. Second interview will be Monday February 13th at 1pm EST. I will be discussing several topics surrounding relationships, intimacy, my coaching and workshop retreats, as well as plans of my goals of working in the entertainment industry as their go to Spiritual Healer, performing on stage my unique Divine Touch Massage, and lastly an exercise program I am creating specialized for women.

Click here for preview of PressRelease 

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Workshops-Enhance YOUR life

I have been involved and working in the health field for over 40 years. My passion began in being healthy when I was six years old. During my teenage years and my young adult hood, even through my pregnancies health was my top priority. Health for my children was a top priority. Health for my family was a top priority.

I also have been gifted with many gifts such as my spiritual gifts. I’ve been able to see, hear, feel, and know things from the other side. My first book titled, Angel Works, talks specifically on my ups and downs, the sexual abuse from my father and the domestic violence from my ex-husband. As I continued to grow, (and want to grow), these spiritual gifts have only become more heightened along the way. These gifts actually saved me. Saved myself to have the courage to stand up to my ex-husband and get out. The whole story is in the book if you have interest in reading that. But I just wanted to give you some background on who I am and what I am about.
When I work, no matter what capacity that is, I will always use my spiritual gifts. I am sure many out there do use their spiritual gifts personally and professionally but are we speaking this? I have no hesitation in speaking about my spiritual gifts. I use them in my massage therapy. I use them in my coaching services. I use them in my workshops. I use them when I am mentoring someone. I use them when I help them with finding the right essential oil to heal their physical and emotional bodies.

www.thespacebetweenthethorns.com
Above discusses about the three weekend retreats I offer. They are held from Friday afternoon until Sunday evening. Room and board covered. FREE GIFTS given on Sunday. The three workshops are:
Relational communication
Sexual/intimacy issues
Spiritual Sensual massage

On the bottom of each page you will find links to all services and products I offer. I am also a doTerra distributor and a beach body coach.
If you have questions or ideas that you would like to propose on this forum please do not hesitate to do that. I look forward to them.
Intimacy Counseling, Coaching, Delaware Relationship Coach | Newark, DE
The Space Between the Thorns provides intensive weekend workshops for men, woman and couples, in Newark, DE.
WWW.THESPACEBETWEENTHETHORNS.COM

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Spiritual Sensual Massages

Spiritual Sensual Massages

I have found through working with men, many really do not know what this means or entails. It’s so much more than having sexual intercourse. It’s more than just giving a massage. It’s a combination of all of who we are:

Spiritual

Mental

Emotional

Intellectual

Physical

When we are able to utilize all parts of us in our unions we feel our energies in a higher place, from a higher place. But ignorer to do this, we need to tap in, tune in, to self. Toffee and see ourselves as Spiritual beings in a human body and our bodies being the way they are, it’s natural for us to come together in sexual intercourse. We need to step back away from this type of thinking so we can embrace who we are. All aspects of self. When we are able to “get out of ourselves” and back “into us” we then can experience these higher energies; with self and with our partner(s). A massage starts way before any actual touching takes place. It starts in the mind, with our thoughts. This is where our creative energies begin. Thought to words, to action to destiny. And YES, even within a massage. We also need to get out of the word itself “sensual” as f its a sexual experience. Sensuality is big! From a hand gesture to a light kiss on the cheek to a gentle touch from a hand onto the inner thigh.

I teach all about these things within my Spiritual Sensual Massage workshops.

I trust you will find all of my workshops helpful to you. That they will enlighten you, open your mind to think about this in a while new light.

Till next time!!

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

 

Workshops

A glimpse of what and how my spirit animals will assit you in the workshops I offer. Spiritual and Emotional Healing will undoubtedly take place. When the student is ready the teacher appears. Are you ready?!

Black Panther Spirit Animal

Raven Spirit Animal

In love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Our Sixth Sense

Our sixth sense. We all have them. But are we using them in our life? Are we using them in our life to make better decisions? Do we use our six sense to help others in their life?

The six senses come from our Spirit. We are born with a Spirit being inside a physical body. Our five senses are:

Sight

Touch

Taste

Hearing

Smell

Yes, we can access our sixth sense through all of our five senses. The sixth sense is when we can see, hear, feel, smell and taste from a higher level. A level that is unseen. When we have the Spiritual gift of sight, this means we can see energy from the spirit realm. When we have the Spiritual gift of hearing, we can hear from a higher level. When we have the Spiritual gift of smell we can smell from a higher realm. When we have the gift of touch, we touch from a higher realm. Usually along with the hearing, seeing, touching, etc. comes a feeling and/or knowing. Because when we have a feeling there’s a knowing to the feeling that rides within it.

The most common sixth senses are sight, touch and hearing. They are called Clairvoyance, Clairsentience and Clairaudience. Claircognizance is the meaning of knowingness. It is just known, so the person can be told exactly what they need to know. Clairalience is psychic smelling. It is a phenomenon where sensitive people can smell the odors of a person/entity who is not of the earth plane. Clairgustance is being aware of tastes. It is being aware of taste without putting anything physically in the mouth by perceiving the essence of a substance through taste from the spiritual or ethereal realms. The sensation of what one is tasting is often linked to a spirit on the other side.

The “claires” I have been able to tap into are sight (my dominate Spiritual gift), hearing and knowing. However I do experience other realities through touch. It shows itself as a tickling sensation on the body when connection with Spirit. This usually includes the face, hands, and neck. Also spirit scents which are often floral.

When you are aware of these things, your gift will grow and expand into the other senses. This is a good thing. The more you are able to tap in, tune in and turn on your entire life will grow. You will see lol things from a new perspective. You will see others in a new light. You will begin the process of knowing more about what life really is about. Your own personal life, the cosmos and so much more. Hopefully this will give you the tenacity to want to learn even more about the unseen Spiritual world. It is a beautiful place when you tap in to HIGHER realms. There are lower realms as well. But that is meant for a different article.

Blessings

Be In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Obtaining Knowledge

So you see, when you ask ‘How to I obtain the knowledge of God, how do I obtain the knowledge of liberation?’ all I can say is it’s the wrong question. Why do you want to obtain it? Because the very fact that you’re wanting to obtain it is the only thing that prevents you from getting there. You already have it. But of course, it’s up to you. It’s your privilege to pretend that you don’t. That’s your game; that’s your life game; that’s what makes you think you’re an ego. And when you want to wake up, you will, just like that. If you’re not awake, it shows you don’t want to. You’re still playing the hide part of the game. You’re still, as it were, the self pretending it’s not the self. And that’s what you want to do. So you see, in that way, too, you’re already there. https://www.erowid.org/culture/characters/watts_alan/watts_alan_article1.shtml Its called “The Nature of Consciousness” a lecture by Alan Watts. . . It’s real long.. if you dont want to read it all, pick any spot and it’ll satisfy your thirst for peace and knowing on this day. SMILE

In Love and Light,

Author Barbara Anne Rose

Mind Chatter – how do you cope?

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I remember reading many years ago a book written by Charles Stanley. It was titled, “Cobwebs of the Mind.” There is one thing that really stuck out in my head. It is that all of us have the power within to change our thoughts. We can change our negative thoughts into positive ones. We can essentially, as Charles Stanley commented, re-wire them. This takes time.
Depending upon how long we have been suffering and what we are suffering from, can depend on how long it can take to re-wire our brains to think and believe the opposite.

If you are someone who has suffered sexual abuse from a family member for several years it may take several years to change our thoughts from hate to love. From feeling like we are less valued to someone who has a lot of value. To recognize that we are a valuable human being with many talents (yes, I truly believe all of us have many talents) to give in loving ways rather then feeling like we have nothing to give back to society. Many times with sexual abuse we lose ourselves. We start to think we have nothing and are nothing. That we are worthless and that the only thing we may feel we can offer is sex. I understand. I speak from experience. I once thought that way about myself.

I was a victim of sexual abuse at the pure young age of three. My body memories remembered abuse happening to me from three to five years of age. It wasn’t until at the age of 29 did these memories surface. My youngest child, a girl, (my other two children are boys) who was almost three at the time, is when these memories showed themselves to me. Being the type of person I am, I asked myself the question, “Why? What am I feeling? What is happening to me?” I knew enough to question. I asked myself to provide the answers.With the assistance of therapists, a few of them by the way, helped me help myself to re-wire my brain. It was damn tough but well worth every second. One of the things that I very much enjoyed was my walks outside. I loved the sun, the clouds, birds and all of the animals I saw as I went on my walks.

So…when we work on getting rid of our mind chatter, our brains are ready to receive answers. Looking outside of ourselves, such as nature, helps do this for us. I believe it helps us tap into our self, our soul, the spirit within us. But first we need to be open and willing to accept that there are answers in nature. Many could argue is it the brain, the body, the heart, the spirit that receives these answers given? What I say is that in order for one part of us to open up to our truth, all the other parts of us need to be open to receive. It is all connected. We are all connected. We connect to ourselves micro cosmically and we connect to the universe macro-cosmically.

A shift in energy is always followed by a change in our reality.

In Love and Light,

Author and Healer
Barbara Anne Rose

Cartier Video – integrative trauma healing

There is much to interpret about this Cartier video. Sensually, sexually, emotionally, and even Spiritually. I invite you to write your feedback. I included my interpretations.

I watched this four times because there was so much! First of all I was getting chills from the get-go. It was very magical. When the leopard started waking up and when it burst through the cage, coming alive/waking up I saw and felt so much power and strength from the leopard. When he broke through the glass I sensed freedom. Freedom from being trapped inside his jeweled shell and then freedom from being stuck in the building. The leopard, it appeared he was looking and traveling instinctively of where he knew he needed to go. The watcher listens and watches in anticipation. Maybe even thinking. “Where is he going?” “What is his destination and why?”

I then see him run through the rings he must go through. He meets a dragon. Is the dragon his friend or enemy? Is the dragon being his friend and guiding him to where he needed to go? Like a Spirit guide perhaps? Until after I watched this a few times I realized the dragon was the golden bridge. It seemed like the dragon and the leopard were speaking telepathically to one another. The leopard was traveling from place to place; on the dragon, to the elephant with the castle on his back, jumping on the plane and then to the Cartier building, going somewhere he KNEW he needed to go. I could feel the energy inside the leopard. His sense of smell stronger and stronger leading him, telling him he is so close.

It was very sensual and erotic. It seemed like the panther was doing everything and anything to get where he needed to go. I noticed also when the leopard was looking down into the castle he seemed in awe. I noticed the peacock opened its wings. The panther seemed in awe when he arrived at the castle knowing that his beloved is there waiting for him. When they finally meet and embrace, it is in their essences that they each knew they would be together forever. I could tell that she was waiting for him and he was waiting to find her. The leopard was led every step of the way to reach her and be with her. In the end they walked into the box, as one, united, to be with each other forever.

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Author of Angel Workks