Trusting

Trusting others is not something one should expect. Trust is earned, not matter what kind of relationship you have. It can be a relationship a parent has with their child, child with parent, a business associate, friend, lover, confidant. The ultimate one any one of us needs to put our trust in, is the higher power we believe in. THAT’S where it truly belongs. Anyone or anything outside of that must work to gain the trust of another. Period! It would be inappropriate to say to another or expect from another, for them to trust us (or vice versa) based on one meeting, one session, one phone call. If you do, then go inside to what your gut is telling you. If and when you have any questions or concerns about it, sit back taking some time to think about the situation as well as the person giving you the information.

When we deal with other businesses, allowing a reasonable amount of time, such as anywhere between 24 – 72 hrs is sufficient. Keep in mind 24 -72 hrs is their business hours, not days. When I work with individuals or couples, I like to be upfront with what to expect, or not expect, as it comes to how I run my business. In my eyes, proper protocol concerning getting back with someone, be it business to business, client with therapist, or student with coach, is the amount of up to three days. I also go further by expressing if they do not hear back form me within that time, to please call again. Or email again. I am open to receiving their input. I want to hear from my people no matter what question, concern, issue, they have. It is better, (and healthier by the way) to voice yourself by making your thoughts known. We all know no one can read all of our thoughts, so better to voice them then leave your voice unattended. Sometimes when we don’t voice, we will build resentment towards the other person. We may feel guilt or shame about our own selves thinking we didn’t have the right to say what we wanted to say.

When we love us, it is a good thing to voice our self.

In the Relational Communication Workshop I offer, these are things we go over. Bring your thoughts, concerns, issues, to me and I will help you widen your thought process around what is holding you back. We can discuss what you think you may be holding you back. I can help you discover what else may possibly be holding you back from moving forward to discuss subject matters close to your heart. I also help others change the way they think about words, and how the words they may be using is part cause of why they are where they are.

Visit my YouTube ChannelĀ YouTube. When you click link it will direct you to one of my most recent interviews with CUTV News.

I wish you blessings beyond belief!

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

CUTV News Radio Show

Radio Interview with Doug Lewellen this past Monday on February 6, 2017 at 1 PM was a blast. Click here to hear all the juicy details on why and how I created The Space Between The Thorns, my coaching, mentoring and workshop retreats.

Giving live examples of potential relationship issues, what to look for, how to handle them, are we discussing our thoughts about what we want, desire, like in our relationships. Our sexual likes, embracing our sexuality and sensuality. How we have the link inside us all to express our truth.

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose

Let’s Take a Look at Words

Outside of using words to express ourselves, have you ever thought of words? The word itself? To look at it. To feel it. To hear it? Have you ever even thought to see words from a different angle and perspective? Words can be a funny thing! Ha ha he he. We use them to make jokes. We use them to play games. We use them when we grimace our face and say silly and weird things. We play with words. We fight with words. We make love with words. Words can be our greatest ally and our biggest enemy. How do we use words in our day to day life? At home? At work? With our children? With our friends? Our spouses? Do you have a different facial expression based on who and what you are saying? Have you taken a closer look at who these people are and what the circumstances are around the scenario? Maybe we’ll laugh at ourself when we realize how insane we can sometimes be. OR how insanely funny we can be.

I enjoy looking at life, at things from a different angle than I’m normally looking at. It’s refreshing to get of myself and see things in a different light. Even if when I see things in a different light that may not show its light on my personality as being “good”. We all have our “good” and “bad” side to us. The dark and the light. The ying and the yang.

Soooo……without further ado, let me show you a word or two and what I have noticed. Let’s take a look at the word LIVE. Did you know that the word live spelled backwards is EVIL? Interesting. I wonder why. Have you ever thought why this may be so? Here’s my take. When we come into this life, live it, we come across evil things. Sometimes we come across evil people. For sure, we hear about evil things on the news. But do you really think (I doubt it) that to lie life, we’re supposed to be succumbed to evil things? I’m not writing this article to put a dampen on anyones’ life. I’m just stating what I’ve noticed. That this word “LIVE” is spelled “EVIL” backwards. It just makes me think about the word as a whole.

Now let’s take a look at the word LOVE. Love isn’t a full word spelled backwards but this is what we’ve got; EVOL. I took it upon myself to add 2 letters at the end of this word. But these two letters are still a part of the word. These letters are “e”and “v”. As you can see they are at the front of the word. Let’s take these two letters and flip them adding them to the end of the word. Now here we have the word EVOLVE. For sure I would trust that all of us are evolving as we go through life. As we live life. We can evolve through the evils that may come our way or even if we ourselves have caused harm to others. Evil, in my opinion is a hard word for people to accept. It sounds so harsh. Even the word evil sounds evil. It probably may bring forth thoughts that are not pleasant about another person or ourself. We all know we are not perfect. Being not perfect doesn’t mean we’re evil people. If we are evolving are we also at the same time raising our vibrations? When we evolve are we growing as individuals? Moving past things that no longer serve us? What does the word LOVE and EVOLVE mean to you? What do you feel, see, hear, smell, and know as it concerns these two words?

E – Enlighten

V – Victory

O – Organize

L – Love

V – Victim

E – Expand

As we enlighten ourselves we claim victory of the old. And so we will choose to organize our life in way that matches. We will then love ourself more, not victimize self then grow to expand to a higher place. And the circle continues to turn. Enlighten more. Reach another level of victory. Organize again. Love again. Realize a victim mentality and choose to expand from that again. And so on and so on. Such as life. Such as to live in this embodiment of a physical body. Constantly in LIVE mode. Constantly in EVOLVE mode.

 

In Love and Light,

Barbara Anne Rose